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Torrance, what Medievalist is saying is that by using a different term to describe gay marriage, you are establishing a different standard for same-sex couples that is at the same time different and substantially less than that for opposite-sex couples. You've heard of "separate but equal?" Originally, that concept was applied to schools--African-American children were allegedly supposed to get the same education as Caucasian children, but in separate facilities.
It ended up being separate and vastly inequal, which led to forced desgregation and bussing.
What difference does the damn term make? If it's a civil union instead of a marriage, that opens the door for differences in benefits, taxation, custoday rights--in short, all the things same-sex couples are fighting for in the first place.
Marriage is a contract. People should not be barred from making that contract because they are of the same gender.
This may be your opinion, but the way you stated it was offensive and derogatory. *shrug* You're entitled to have your opinion, sure, but on a privately owned board you are NOT entitled to expressing it in an insulting, flame-war-starting, insensitive way.
It ended up being separate and vastly inequal, which led to forced desgregation and bussing.
What difference does the damn term make? If it's a civil union instead of a marriage, that opens the door for differences in benefits, taxation, custoday rights--in short, all the things same-sex couples are fighting for in the first place.
Marriage is a contract. People should not be barred from making that contract because they are of the same gender.
This may be your opinion, but the way you stated it was offensive and derogatory. *shrug* You're entitled to have your opinion, sure, but on a privately owned board you are NOT entitled to expressing it in an insulting, flame-war-starting, insensitive way.