Cooee - when I was growing up here in the states, women in the educated classes still didn't swear. It's only been since about 1960 that women (ladies) have started to use more colorful language. Men did not swear or use questionable language in the presence of a lady - and if by any chance something slipped out, there was an immediate apology. (We had a crusty old farmer who lived across the road from us - he'd almost get his tongue tangled trying to change what he was going to say to something that was aceptable in my presence.) I can't tell you how many times after I started working (mid-late 60's) I had a man apologize to me for saying damn in my presence - including up to last year.
"You cad" was a cutting remark a woman could say to a man. "Ye Gods" was acceptable for a mature woman to say. Goodness gracious, goodness me, good grief, oh bother, botheration, shoot, darn, darnation, dang, dagnabit, heck were all in use by both sexes when I was growing up. Noticeably missing were all the references to body functions. Even in college, the swear words didn't increase much - acceptable were damn, hell, and shit but more from the guys than the girls and if a girl used one of them she was likely to say "shit, oh I mean shoot" and get a little red-faced. Puma