I was ordered to join by my author. (I'm first reader, idea backboard and general support to a published SF novelist. She told me "You need to join, it's FUN!"
I was doing background checks on pubs and editors. This site came up. I lurked. I fell in love. I joined.
I was at a nightclub, and this bear of a man beat me senseless, when I woke up covered in vomit and cheap gin, there was a web address written on the underside of my left ring finger, which had been broken and paper mached. My wedding ring was missing.