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http://religion.blogs.cnn.com/2011/...o-grapple-with-girl-explains-decision/?hpt=C1
I almost never post here, but I stumbled across this article and found it interesting.
I respect this kid's chivalry, and I'd much rather have people like him than creeps on the other end of the spectrum, but I can't help but feel like he missed the point.
This girl's an athlete in her own right--if she's capable enough to reach state-level competition, I feel like it's disrespectful to deny her the chance to earn the title.
And you can't really compare it to fighting a girl on the street, or abusing someone in a relationship. Wrestling has rules and judges. The goal's not to hurt the opponent (ideally), but to help each other improve their style and technique.
Finally, if this girl's trying to learn self-defense, she ought to have the chance to practice it in realistic situations. She's probably not going to be attacked by other teenage girls. Maybe they're "compromising positions," but at least she'd be able to prove to herself that she knows how to get out of them.
I practice martial arts as a hobby myself, and from my experience, the biggest difference between fighting a guy and fighting a girl is that a guy will have the incentive to show some restraint whereas a girl won't feel like she has to. All my biggest injuries have come from other girls. EDIT: Actually just this one girl in particular...maybe she's just a BAMF...
Again, I think his heart's in the right place...I just feel like the girl deserved to have a fair fight.
Thoughts?
I almost never post here, but I stumbled across this article and found it interesting.
I respect this kid's chivalry, and I'd much rather have people like him than creeps on the other end of the spectrum, but I can't help but feel like he missed the point.
This girl's an athlete in her own right--if she's capable enough to reach state-level competition, I feel like it's disrespectful to deny her the chance to earn the title.
And you can't really compare it to fighting a girl on the street, or abusing someone in a relationship. Wrestling has rules and judges. The goal's not to hurt the opponent (ideally), but to help each other improve their style and technique.
Finally, if this girl's trying to learn self-defense, she ought to have the chance to practice it in realistic situations. She's probably not going to be attacked by other teenage girls. Maybe they're "compromising positions," but at least she'd be able to prove to herself that she knows how to get out of them.
I practice martial arts as a hobby myself, and from my experience, the biggest difference between fighting a guy and fighting a girl is that a guy will have the incentive to show some restraint whereas a girl won't feel like she has to. All my biggest injuries have come from other girls. EDIT: Actually just this one girl in particular...maybe she's just a BAMF...
Again, I think his heart's in the right place...I just feel like the girl deserved to have a fair fight.
Thoughts?
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