My father wanted me named Cassandra if I was a girl and my mother HATED the name, but wouldn't argue with him. When I was born (a girl), she filled out the birth certificate with the name of the main character of the book (not Romance) she was reading:
The Story of Andrea S. Fields, Woman Doctor (1960's--I forgive the title, though it was a really cheesy book.)
I hated the name Andrea for my entire life.
HATED it. Not that there's anything wrong with the name itself, but it wasn't MY right name. When I was a teen, I discovered that my father had always intended me to be Cassandra. After many years of debate and looking around for MY name, I did change it to Cassandra as my 40th b-day pressie to myself. Got rid of the S and my ex's name all in one swoop. Love it.
My daughter's name came from a family name--Elizabeth. (waits for SP to swoop down on that one.) My father's mother was Gladys Elizabeth and always went by Elizabeth. She died when my father was a young boy. The girls of my generation decided that the first-born girl would be named Elizabeth in her honor. I had that girl. Her father (my ex) is Black and we were both big classic ST fans. Her middle name is Cheron, after the planet in
Let That Be Your Last Battlefield. Funny thing is--she was the FOURTH Cheron born that month at that hospital. I was stunned.
My son is the 13th consecutive James in the family. He's legally changing his name to Samuel--with my full support.
Hey, folks can't get it right all the time.
My ex's family has a mondo cool naming tradition for the girls: A daughter gets her mother's middle name as her first name. My sil didn't have a girl, so my daughter is thinking of continuing the family tradition, should she have a girl.